Meet the CEO and founder of Peerless Etiquette; The Honorable Mrs. Benjamin

With a heart attuned to the beauty of global customs and a teacup never far from reach, Mrs. Zakiyyah Shakir-Benjamin has dedicated her life to the art of refined living. Her journey through the world of etiquette has taken her from the stately salons of Switzerland to the intricate tea rituals of China and the warm, gracious hospitality of South Africa. Enriched by elite training in both America and Europe, she has mastered the enduring principles of poise, protocol, and polished social grace—rooted deeply in tradition, yet wholly relevant to the contemporary world.

At the helm of Peerless Etiquette, Mrs. Benjamin has created something truly exceptional—a living legacy of elegance designed to educate, inspire, and elevate. Unlike conventional programs, Peerless Etiquette stands apart with its all-encompassing approach, offering multiple pathways to explore and embody the art of refinement:

• Peerless Etiquette Institute: A premier destination for those seeking formal instruction and immersive training in etiquette, social graces, and cultural intelligence.

• Peerless Etiquette Magazine: A beautifully curated publication where readers can find inspiration and guidance on refined living, modern manners, and gracious lifestyle practices.

• Peerless Etiquette Podcast: A daily companion offering thoughtful reflections, timeless etiquette tips, and your daily dose of refinement—available wherever you listen.

• Peerless Etiquette Consultancy: A bespoke service providing tailored etiquette solutions and strategic guidance for individuals, corporations, luxury brands, and hospitality leaders across the globe.

Mrs. Benjamin of Peerless Etiquette enjoying one of her passions outside of teaching etiquette.

In a time when etiquette is often misconstrued as rigid or antiquated, Mrs. Benjamin offers a refreshingly contemporary perspective, enriched by traditional roots. Her presence is delightfully elegant, bringing a sense of refinement and warmth to every room she enters. She believes that the true essence of sophistication lies not in formality, but in thoughtfulness—in making others feel welcome, comfortable, and respected.

Whether she is coaching public figures, mentoring youth, or consulting with Fortune 500 companies and world-renowned restaurants, Mrs. Benjamin brings unmatched expertise, cultural fluency, and a tailored approach to each engagement. With an effortless blend of classical charm and modern sensibility, she redefines etiquette as an instrument of empowerment: a way to express confidence, foster meaningful connection, and lead with grace.

Beyond the polished tables and grand halls, her heart finds its truest expression in life’s quieter, more meaningful moments—reading to children, nurturing kindness, and instilling the timeless values of curiosity, consideration, and cultural respect.

At her core, Mrs. Benjamin is grounded by her devotion to family. She is the beloved wife of the Honorable Christopher Benjamin—State Representative turned Judge—and a proud mother to her daughters, Aaliyah and Jannah. When not engaged in her mission to spread the art of refined living, she treasures time with her family in the beautiful city of Miami, Florida.

Through Peerless Etiquette, Mrs. Zakiyyah Shakir-Benjamin invites you to enter a world where etiquette transcends rules and becomes a lifestyle—one rooted in presence, grace, and intentionality. Because in the end, refinement is not simply knowing which fork to use—it is the elegance of making others feel they belong at the table.